Today I was thinking...
"I know it upsets you that I'm doing well, but instead,
focus that energy on #gettingyourgameup" - @troymonaco
"I know it upsets you that I'm doing well, but instead,
focus that energy on #gettingyourgameup" - @troymonaco
Success doesn't just show up in the mail, but it isn't always that hard to find. It can also be very easy to get lost in all of what finding "success" will take (especially if you're not even sure what works from what works best). We all have times of uncertainty and wonder if we're miles away or if success is around the next corner. But, instead of concentrating on the distance, just look at where you've been and what you need to do to keep going. Things like consistency, focus and determination, are your road map, flashlight and fuel, and a championship attitude is your best travel companion on your road to success, so make sure you never lose those things along the way - before long, you'll find yourself smack dab in the middle of it, looking around wondering where your next stop will be. - @troymonaco
"I only sound cocky if, you don't know what you want
or you don't know what your worth." - troymonaco
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back
and realize they were the big things." - Robert Brault
"What makes me shake my head the most are people who
see my whole profile and life in front of them on Facebook
and still "friend request" me and ask what I do." - @troymonaco
#DoYourResearch #GoogleMe.
"Begging for attention is fine, as long as you have
a goal that is reached in exchange for all this effort."
"People read my blog because they
know there will be something here,
that they can say to someone else." - @troymonaco
Don't be such a baby. This is what you wanted. An opportunity to do what you've always dreamed of. Now you've got the chance to make it happen and your having second thoughts, things aren't the way you want them, fix it, can't fix em, that's ok too. You didn't expect everything to be perfect did you? Oh, you thought it would be easier? If it was easy you wouldn't want it so bad because everyone else would already have it. Not sure it's gonna ever happen, that's ok, you won't be the only one who won't believe it if you don't, so you'll have lots of company at your "Maybe next time" party. So go ahead and put the date for the party on your schedule and start planning that, should be pretty easy your already half way there, or you can get back to what you should be doing, and don't stop until it happens. - @troymonaco
So far we've talked about "Them vs Me" and "Me vs Me", now I think it's time to talk about "You vs. Me". In this case the "you" I'm referring to, are the people best suited to help you (and possibly the closest) but invariably in the space between you and what you really want, and not helping you get it. And some of these people just aren't going to. Best friends, family, GF's & BF's may be the closest people to you, and may even be the people who understand you the best, but unfortunately they're not always the ones who want to help you get what's best. They usually want what they want. And it's usually whatever works best in their personal plans. Can they help? Sometimes. Should they help, yes if they can. Will they help - Not under ordinary circumstances. These "you" type's don't really help until they see a reason that helps them. I believe in sharing your dreams and aspirations with everyone, so that they know what direction you're headed in, but do not expect them to help you get there. So with this said, avoid at all costs, and where ever possible saying to these types of people "can you____ for me?" Because the disappointment that comes as a result of it not happening is much greater then if you tried to make it happen yourself. - @troymonaco